Monk Vives

  The night is silent. You’re lying beside the person you love. But after the act is over, a strange chill fills the room. No sound. No warmth. Just an invisible distance that feels miles wide. That silence— is it peace? Or the calm before a storm your marriage never recovered from? Let’s talk about the world’s most silent war zone : The Bedroom. For millions of couples, that sacred space of “love” has turned into a graveyard— where women bury their unfulfilled desires and men hide their broken confidence. This is not a comfortable read. It’ll shake what you think you know about love, masculinity, and intimacy. The Polite Orgasm — The Greatest Acting Performance in History Every night, millions of women around the world perform one silent play: They fake pleasure. They fake moans. They fake satisfaction. It’s called The Polite Orgasm. Men believe they’re great lovers. Women quietly hand them an Oscar-worthy performance. Why? Because she’s been told since chil...

In recent years, media outlets have warned that oral sex is fueling a “throat cancer epidemic” — some even claim it’s already more common than cervical cancer. That sounds like an alarm bell rung too loudly. So what does the science actually say? Let’s dive deep, backed by data. 🔬 The Biological Link: HPV, Oral Sex & Throat Cancer The human papillomavirus (HPV), especially high-risk strains like HPV-16, is firmly linked to oropharyngeal (throat) cancers. Oral sex is a documented route for transmitting HPV to the throat. In high-income countries, the share of throat (oropharyngeal) cancers that are HPV-driven has grown. In the U.S., ~60–70% of oropharyngeal cancers are now attributed to HPV. In the UK, ~51.8% of oropharyngeal squamous cell carcinoma (OPSCC) cases (2002–2011) were HPV-positive, and the overall incidence of OPSCC roughly doubled in that decade. 📈 Incidence Trends & Comparisons United States Among HPV-related cancers, oropharyngeal cancers now outnumber cer...

  Rahul was a man who seemed strong to the world—successful in his job, confident with his friends, a loving father at home. But deep inside, he carried things he couldn’t talk about: little desires, unusual fantasies, and unspoken dreams that made him feel vulnerable. One night, he finally opened up to his wife, Meera. He said, “There are things I want to share with you, but I don’t know if you’ll laugh at me.” Meera smiled and said, “Of course, tell me.” But when Rahul revealed a private desire, she chuckled. “Really? That’s so silly. You actually think like that?” Her words cut deeper than she realized. Rahul felt small. Embarrassed. And most importantly—unsafe. From that night, Rahul stopped sharing. Weeks later, he found himself talking to a colleague at work who listened with interest, who didn’t laugh, who made him feel heard. Nothing physical happened at first—it was just conversations. But those conversations were like oxygen to a suffocating soul. And slowly...